{"id":15307,"date":"2021-12-17T14:43:59","date_gmt":"2021-12-17T10:43:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/?p=15307"},"modified":"2021-12-17T14:43:59","modified_gmt":"2021-12-17T10:43:59","slug":"kisil%c9%99rin-evd%c9%99n-getm%c9%99sinin-4-s%c9%99b%c9%99bi-psixoloqlardan-aciqlama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/?p=15307","title":{"rendered":"Ki\u015fil\u0259rin evd\u0259n getm\u0259sinin 4 s\u0259b\u0259bi. Psixoloqlardan A\u00c7IQLAMA"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ki\u015fil\u0259rin evd\u0259n getm\u0259sinin 4 s\u0259b\u0259bi. Psixoloqlardan A\u00c7IQLAMA<\/span><\/p>\n

Bo\u015fanmalara \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs ki\u015fil\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n g\u0259lir. Ki\u015fil\u0259ri bu add\u0131m\u0131 atma\u011fa n\u0259 vadar edir? <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Psixoloqlardan bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tirilib.<\/strong><\/p>\n

“\u0130NFONEWS”<\/span><\/strong><\/a> ki\u015fil\u0259ri evd\u0259n getm\u0259y\u0259, bo\u015fanma\u011fa vadar ed\u0259n 4 s\u0259b\u0259bi t\u0259qdim edirik:<\/p>\n

Ki\u015fil\u0259r evd\u0259 onlara d\u0259y\u0259r verilm\u0259diyini hiss ed\u0259nd\u0259<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

“Ki\u015fil\u0259r xan\u0131mlar\u0131na yard\u0131m g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259yi, onlara m\u00fcraci\u0259t olunanda ev i\u015fl\u0259rind\u0259 bel\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259klik etm\u0259yi sevirl\u0259r.\u00a0 M\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, h\u0259r bir ki\u015fiy\u0259 onun evd\u0259 varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ail\u0259d\u0259 faydal\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 duymaq olduqca vacibdir. Lakin \u0259r bunu hiss etm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259, onun g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fc i\u015fl\u0259r arvad\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirilm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 naraz\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131n ilkin t\u0259m\u0259li qoyulmu\u015f olur.” – dey\u0259, psixoloq Aleksandra Solomon s\u00f6yl\u0259yir.<\/p>\n

Ki\u015fil\u0259r arvadlar\u0131 il\u0259 ev x\u0259rcl\u0259rini raz\u0131la\u015fd\u0131ra bilm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

“Ail\u0259 psixoloqlar\u0131na m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259n \u0259ks\u0259r ki\u015fil\u0259r xan\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131n maliyy\u0259 q\u0259rarlar\u0131 il\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015fmad\u0131qar\u0131n\u0131, x\u00fcsusil\u0259, ail\u0259d\u0259 ki\u015finin yegan\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n oldu\u011fu zaman\u00a0 bu z\u0259mind\u0259 davaml\u0131 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259rin yarand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildirirl\u0259r.” – bunu nyu-yorklu psixoterapevt Dayana Bart vur\u011fulay\u0131b.<\/p>\n

X\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015f\u0259nd\u0259<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Psixoterapevt Antonio Borello is\u0259 \u0259mindir ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 s\u0259daq\u0259tsizlik aysberqin yaln\u0131z g\u00f6rs\u0259n\u0259n hiss\u0259sidir. “Ki\u015fi nigah\u0131n\u0131 x\u0259yan\u0259t \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n pozursa, bunun \u0259sl s\u0259b\u0259b olmas\u0131n\u0131 dem\u0259k \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tindi, \u00e7\u00fcnki x\u0259yan\u0259tin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn qeyri-m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nliyi, yaxud da \u0259r-arvad m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin hans\u0131 s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 olmas\u0131 m\u00fcammal\u0131 olaraq qal\u0131r. Nigahdan k\u0259nar m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ola bil\u0259r ki…” – dey\u0259, qeyd edib.<\/p>\n

Ortaq he\u00e7 n\u0259 qalmayanda\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

B\u0259li, m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox rastla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hallardan biri d\u0259 m\u0259hz budur. “Ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n tez-tez e\u015fitdiyim: “Bizim ortaq he\u00e7 bir mara\u011f\u0131m\u0131z art\u0131q yoxdur.”- ifad\u0259sidir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, o m\u0259zuniyy\u0259tini adalarda, d\u0259nizd\u0259, arvad\u0131 is\u0259 Parisin \u0259n m\u00f6ht\u0259\u015f\u0259m otell\u0259rind\u0259n birind\u0259 ke\u00e7irm\u0259k arzulay\u0131r. K\u0259nardan adi, b\u0259sit bir \u015fey kimi g\u00f6rs\u0259ns\u0259 d\u0259, bu m\u0259nas\u0131z olaya ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259n bax\u0131landa is\u0259 art\u0131q eyni dal\u011fada olmad\u0131qlar\u0131, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 h\u00f6rm\u0259ti bitm\u0259si hiss edilir.” -dey\u0259, Dayana Bart qeyd edib.<\/p>\n

\u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259, qad\u0131nlara v\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 davalar\u0131n, s\u00f6z-s\u0259hb\u0259tl\u0259rin \u0259sl s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri izah edilirdi. V\u0259…psixoloqlar\u0131n m\u0259lumat\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, \u0259sl s\u0259b\u0259b anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131qlar \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259n ba\u015flay\u0131r. Ekspertl\u0259rin dediyin\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n, qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259ri \u00e7ox vaxt yalan dan\u0131\u015fmaqda g\u00fcnahland\u0131r\u0131r, h\u0259tta onlar\u0131 yalan dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa t\u0259\u015fviq edirl\u0259r ki, \u0259slind\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259ti e\u015fitm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131r olmurla, he\u00e7 sevmirl\u0259r d\u0259. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, arvad\u0131 \u0259rin\u0259 “M\u0259n k\u00f6k\u0259lmi\u015f\u0259m?” sual\u0131n\u0131 ver\u0259nd\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259ti e\u015fitm\u0259yi n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 ist\u0259yir…”- dey\u0259, psixoloqlar izah edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ki\u015fil\u0259rin evd\u0259n getm\u0259sinin 4 s\u0259b\u0259bi. Psixoloqlardan A\u00c7IQLAMA Bo\u015fanmalara \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs ki\u015fil\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n g\u0259lir. Ki\u015fil\u0259ri bu add\u0131m\u0131 atma\u011fa n\u0259 vadar edir? Psixoloqlardan bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tirilib. “\u0130NFONEWS” ki\u015fil\u0259ri evd\u0259n getm\u0259y\u0259,… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":15308,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5373,11,7],"tags":[5651,5650,15,5649],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15307"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15307"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15307\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15309,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15307\/revisions\/15309"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/15308"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15307"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15307"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15307"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}