{"id":17221,"date":"2022-02-24T16:44:47","date_gmt":"2022-02-24T12:44:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/?p=17221"},"modified":"2022-02-24T16:44:47","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T12:44:47","slug":"xalqimizin-basina-g%c9%99tiril%c9%99n-hadis%c9%99l%c9%99ri-bu-d%c9%99f%c9%99-xarici-yazarlar-q%c9%99l%c9%99m%c9%99-alacaq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/?p=17221","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Xalq\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259tiril\u0259n hadis\u0259l\u0259ri bu d\u0259f\u0259 xarici yazarlar q\u0259l\u0259m\u0259 alacaq&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Xalq\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259tiril\u0259n hadis\u0259l\u0259ri bu d\u0259f\u0259 xarici yazarlar q\u0259l\u0259m\u0259 alacaq&#8221;<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri\u00a0 Niderland Krall\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ya\u015fayan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 psixoterapevt, Nideraland Az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131lar\u0131 Koordinasiya \u015euras\u0131n\u0131n \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ndiricisi, orada aktiv f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n \u201cStrichting TogetherStrong\u201d Assosiasiyas\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259sis\u00e7isi, \u015e\u0259hid Teymur Qoca o\u011flu Yusifovun bac\u0131s\u0131 \u0130lkan\u0259 Qoca &#8220;Medianews.az&#8221;<strong> &#8211; <\/strong>a verdiyi m\u00fcsahib\u0259sind\u0259 s\u00f6yl\u0259yib.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/infonews.az\/?p=17221\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">&#8220;\u0130NFONEWS&#8221;<\/span><\/strong><\/a> \u0130lkan\u0259 Qocan\u0131n m\u00fcsahib\u0259sini t\u0259qdim edir:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Hollandiyada Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131 t\u0259msil edirsiniz. V\u0259t\u0259nin maraqlar\u0131n\u0131, m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rini t\u0259bli\u011f etm\u0259k bax\u0131m\u0131ndan n\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcz?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259tdir ki, Hollandiyada ya\u015fay\u0131ram. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m da bu \u00f6lk\u0259nin v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f\u0131d\u0131r, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ki o, Az\u0259rbaycan plovu bi\u015firir, \u00a0evimi\u00a0 Az\u0259rbaycan bayra\u011f\u0131 b\u0259z\u0259yir. \u00d6vladlar\u0131m az\u0259rbaycan dilind\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bunun \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 diaspora f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti, t\u0259bli\u011fat deyilmi?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Hollandlar Az\u0259rbaycanla n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r tan\u0131\u015fd\u0131rlar v\u0259 Qaraba\u011f hadis\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 n\u0259l\u0259ri bilirl\u0259r?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Hollandlar ba\u015fqa m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tl\u0259r haqq\u0131nda maraqlanma\u011f\u0131 sevirl\u0259r. Sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259n intriqalar\u0131, probleml\u0259ri m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259yi, dinl\u0259m\u0259yi sevmirl\u0259r.\u00a0 \u00c7ox g\u0259rgin i\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar, bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259yl\u0259nm\u0259yi, sakit h\u0259yat ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcn tuturlar.<\/p>\n<p>Ancaq b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara baxmayaraq m\u0259n h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 harda olma\u011f\u0131mdan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq onlar\u0131 m\u0259lumatland\u0131r\u0131r, Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131n harda oldu\u011funu, g\u00f6st\u0259rir\u0259m. Art\u0131q t\u0259k m\u0259n deyil, yolda\u015f\u0131m da Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131n h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259rini \u00e7evr\u0259sind\u0259ki insanlara dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. M\u0259nim u\u015faqlar\u0131m da bu haqda yet\u0259ri q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259lumata sahibdirl\u0259r, onlar da Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131, Qaraba\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ox sevirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>A\u011fdamdan ne\u00e7\u0259 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, o g\u00fcnl\u0259ri nec\u0259 xat\u0131rlay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A\u011fdamdan sonuncu d\u0259f\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xanda 19 ya\u015f\u0131m var idi. 1993-c\u00fc ilin 15 iyulunda atamgil gec\u0259 dedi ki,\u00a0 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t \u0259vv\u0259lki kimi deyil, getdikc\u0259 daha \u00e7ox at\u0131rlar. U\u015faqlar\u0131 burdan uzaqla\u015fd\u0131raq, o zaman etiraz etdim, dedim ki, m\u0259n qal\u0131ram, getm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259m. At\u0131\u015fma ba\u015flayanda bizi \u0259mimgilin padval\u0131nda gizl\u0259dirdil\u0259r. Ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00e7\u00f6ld\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131lar ki,\u00a0 h\u00fccum olsa qad\u0131nlar\u0131 g\u00f6nd\u0259r\u0259k. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n \u0259lin\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259k, b\u0259d ayaqda \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259rik. S\u0259h\u0259r durduq dedil\u0259r ki, siz gedirsiniz\u2026 Y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131b yola d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fck, son d\u0259f\u0259 \u00e7evrilib evimiz\u0259 baxd\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>H\u0259y\u0259timizd\u0259 r\u0259ngli \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259r vard\u0131. Sarma\u015f\u0131q \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259yimizi h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 unutmam\u0131\u015fam, h\u0259min g\u00fcn el\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259k a\u00e7m\u0131\u015fd\u0131 ki\u2026 Sanki onunla son g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn oldu\u011funu bilirmi\u015f kimi. H\u0259y\u0259timizd\u0259 m\u0259xm\u0259r g\u00fcll\u0259r \u0259kmi\u015fdik. G\u00fcll\u0259r\u00a0 \u00e7arda\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6rtm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flam\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Sanki g\u00fcll\u0259r d\u0259 biz\u0259 sa\u011f ol deyirdi. Armud, heyva, nar a\u011faclar\u0131m\u0131z dolu idi. G\u00fcll\u0259rimizin \u0259tri \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u0259lirdi.\u00a0 H\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 bu g\u00fcn d\u0259 hara gedir\u0259ms\u0259 h\u0259min qoxunu axtar\u0131ram, b\u0259lk\u0259 o h\u0259y\u0259timizd\u0259ki o son qoxunu tapa bildim dey\u0259. Sanki evimiz d\u0259 a\u011flay\u0131rd\u0131. Orda bir par\u00e7am\u0131 qoyub getdim\u2026<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Yad m\u0259ml\u0259k\u0259td\u0259 A\u011fdam\u0131 nec\u0259 xat\u0131rlay\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131z? \u018fn \u00e7ox n\u0259l\u0259r yad\u0131n\u0131za d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrd\u00fc?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A\u011fdamda 6 n\u00f6mr\u0259li m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 t\u0259hsil alm\u0131\u015fam. Evimiz A\u011fdam\u0131n \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 birl\u0259\u015f\u0259n Seyidli k\u0259ndind\u0259 yerl\u0259\u015firdi.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0259kt\u0259bimizi, m\u00fc\u0259llliml\u0259rimizi xat\u0131rlay\u0131ram. Natavan q\u0131zlar klubuna xora gedirdik. B\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 teatr evin\u0259 gedir, xorda oxuyurduq.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>30 ild\u0259n sonra A\u011fdama bir d\u0259 getdiniz, evinizi nec\u0259 tapd\u0131n\u0131z?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm ki, A\u011fdam\u0131n yaral\u0131 q\u0259lbini ox\u015fama\u011fa ged\u0259c\u0259m, A\u011fdamdan \u00fczr ist\u0259y\u0259c\u0259m. Onu t\u0259nha, t\u0259k qoydu\u011fum, onu qoruya bilm\u0259diyim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanma\u011f\u0131m\u0131 ist\u0259y\u0259c\u0259m. Amma\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Sinif yolda\u015f\u0131m Nahid M\u0259mm\u0259dovla birg\u0259 A\u011fdama getmi\u015fdik. D\u0259h\u015f\u0259t idi\u2026 K\u00f6hn\u0259 d\u0259d\u0259-baba torpa\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan he\u00e7 n\u0259 qalmay\u0131b. Hans\u0131 ki, A\u011fdam m\u0259nim u\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131m idi. Bizim m\u0259h\u0259ll\u0259d\u0259 evl\u0259ri tan\u0131maq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil.<\/p>\n<p>A\u011fdama \u00e7atanda\u00a0 bizi saxlay\u0131b, v\u0259siq\u0259l\u0259ri \u00a0yoxlay\u0131rd\u0131lar. Yoxlan\u0131\u015fda ma\u015f\u0131ndan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb, aya\u011f\u0131m\u0131 torpa\u011fa qoydum. 30 il \u0259vv\u0259l Bak\u0131da A\u011fdam\u0131n i\u015f\u011fal olunmas\u0131 x\u0259b\u0259rini e\u015fid\u0259nd\u0259, sanki n\u0259yis\u0259 itirmi\u015fdim. Aya\u011f\u0131m\u0131 torpa\u011fa qoyanda sanki itirdiyimi tapm\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. Aya\u011f\u0131m\u0131n alt\u0131ndan\u00a0 istilik g\u0259ldi, sanki t\u0259z\u0259 bir don geyindim, d\u0259rim yenil\u0259ndi sanki. Nahid\u0259 dedim ki, biz evd\u0259yik, x\u0259b\u0259rin var?\u00a0 Telefonumu \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131b \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u00e7\u0259km\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, polis yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131b dedi ki, \u201c\u00e7\u0259km\u0259k olmaz\u201d qay\u0131td\u0131m ki, \u201cQaqa, A\u011fdamday\u0131q e\u201d.\u00a0 O da qay\u0131td\u0131 ki, \u201cqurban olaram, amma \u00e7\u0259k\u0259 bilm\u0259zs\u0259n\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Evimizi axtarmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn U\u015faq x\u0259st\u0259xanas\u0131na g\u0259ldik, Hac\u0131 \u0259minin aptekinin yan\u0131na g\u0259lib apteki axtar\u0131rd\u0131m. H\u0259r yeri kol basm\u0131\u015fd\u0131, ke\u00e7m\u0259k olmur. \u00c7ox d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli idi. Evimizd\u0259n he\u00e7 n\u0259 yox idi.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Dediniz ki, A\u011fdamda u\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 qoyub getmisiniz. O u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 A\u011fdamda tapd\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A\u011fdam\u0131n i\u015f\u011fal oldundu\u011funu e\u015fitdiyim g\u00fcnd\u0259n etibar\u0259n 30 il m\u00fcdd\u0259tind\u0259 dissosiasiya \u00f6mr\u00fc ya\u015fad\u0131m. Torpa\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015f\u011fal olunandan bir il sonra \u00a0qarda\u015f\u0131m k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc sur\u0259td\u0259 d\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f\u0259 getdi. \u00a01993-c\u00fc ilin dekabr\u0131nda aprel ay\u0131nda itkin d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc, o k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc sur\u0259td\u0259 m\u00fcharib\u0259y\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 18 ya\u015f\u0131 t\u0259z\u0259 tamam olmu\u015fdu.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Dissosiasiya ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 qeyd etdiniz. Bu nec\u0259 bir \u015feydir?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Y\u0259ni insan travmaya girir v\u0259 hiss etm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259lind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259ni edir, t\u0259biiliyini itirir. \u0130nsan harasa ged\u0259nd\u0259 dar\u0131x\u0131r, o dar\u0131xd\u0131\u011f\u0131 yer\u0259 ged\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 dissosiasiya olur.\u00a0 \u00a030 ild\u0259 n\u0259yis\u0259 axtara-axtara gedirdim. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fc puzzle kimi hiss edirdim. Sanki h\u0259r par\u00e7am\u0131 bir yerd\u0259 tap\u0131rd\u0131m, par\u00e7alar\u0131m\u0131 toplaya-toplaya gedirdim. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli hadis\u0259ni getdiyim h\u0259r \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m. B\u00f6y\u00fck layih\u0259l\u0259r edirdim. Unutm\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m, amma\u00a0 bacarm\u0131rd\u0131m.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Hollandiyada, q\u00fcrb\u0259t eld\u0259 bu 30 ild\u0259 n\u0259l\u0259r ya\u015fad\u0131n\u0131z? V\u0259t\u0259n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dar\u0131x\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Bu 30 ild\u0259 he\u00e7 zaman A\u011fdam\u0131 unutmam\u0131\u015fam. 2002 ci\u00a0 ild\u0259 Almaniyaya oxuma\u011fa getdim. Ondan sonra Az\u0259rbaycanda \u00e7ox t\u0259l\u0259b olunan i\u015f\u00e7il\u0259rd\u0259n biri idim. O zamandan sonra m\u0259cburi k\u00f6\u00e7k\u00fcnl\u0259rl\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm d\u0259 o d\u00f6n\u0259mi ke\u00e7mi\u015fdim. Qa\u00e7q\u0131nlara \u00a0t\u0259liml\u0259r ke\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131m. \u00d6z\u00fcm evsiz qalm\u0131\u015fd\u0131m,\u00a0 torpa\u011f\u0131m\u0131 \u0259limd\u0259n alm\u0131\u015fd\u0131lar, amma qa\u00e7q\u0131nlara \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259n yarad\u0131rd\u0131m. T\u0259liml\u0259rd\u0259 bunu izah edirdim.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0259ni dem\u0259yim odur ki, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m h\u0259r i\u015fd\u0259 torpa\u011f\u0131m\u0131, insnalar\u0131m\u0131 axtard\u0131m. Harda olsam da A\u011fdam\u0131 unutmad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130lkan\u0259 xan\u0131m m\u00fcsahib\u0259nin sonunda\u00a0 xarici jurnalistl\u0259rin Az\u0259rbaycana, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 Qaraba\u011fa s\u0259f\u0259r ed\u0259c\u0259yini, onlar\u0131n Xocal\u0131 \u015fahidl\u0259ri il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259ri bar\u0259d\u0259 bildir\u0259r\u0259k, xalq\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259tiril\u0259n hadis\u0259l\u0259ri bu d\u0259f\u0259 m\u0259hz xarici yazarlar\u0131n q\u0259l\u0259m\u0259 alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vur\u011fulay\u0131b.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Xalq\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259tiril\u0259n hadis\u0259l\u0259ri bu d\u0259f\u0259 xarici yazarlar q\u0259l\u0259m\u0259 alacaq&#8221; Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri\u00a0 Niderland Krall\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ya\u015fayan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 psixoterapevt, Nideraland Az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131lar\u0131 Koordinasiya \u015euras\u0131n\u0131n \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ndiricisi, orada aktiv f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n \u201cStrichting TogetherStrong\u201d Assosiasiyas\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259sis\u00e7isi,&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":17223,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5373,4,8,82,11],"tags":[6134,6185,15,6186],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17221"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=17221"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17221\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17224,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17221\/revisions\/17224"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/17223"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=17221"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=17221"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/infonews.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=17221"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}